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2011: One final look back

Yesterday’s blog post, concluding my review of the year, was intended to be my last for 2011. However, I’ve been cajoled into doing one further post that takes into consideration my personal travels through the last 12 months. Roughly speaking, this is the path I’ve taken:

Six Feet Under. Anti-Valentine Party. Birthday. Frankenstein’s Wedding. Elbow. iPhone. Doctor Who Party. First Quizzing event. Eurovision Party. Sufjan. Degree completed with a First. Avenue Q. Chris Barstow’s 30th. Chris Barstow leaves for Japan. That Day We Sang. Mastermind. Move to Manchester. Greenbelt. Kaisers at Kirkstall. Masters started. Masters stopped. Data-entry tedium. Graduation. New job at MMU. Labour doorstep. Movember. Stepping Out. Petra’s funeral. DJ-ing at Pop Curious again. Christmas. About to move again.

2011 in 10 “things”:

1) My OU graduation and the day of great pride for me and my mum
2) Stella Duffy wearing the “I AM NOT CAROL ANN DUFFY” T-shirt
3) The “wedding dance” in Kirkstall Abbey with Rob Butler and Debbie Gibbs
4) The Six Feet Under blog collaboration with Jon Hickman
5) The three-headed Greenbelt Literary Quiz with Ben Whitehouse and Andy Tate
6) Being back in the Black Chair
7) Calling Chorlton “home”
8) Smiths Night with Debbie and the Chrises
9) The joy of live music with wonderful friends
10) Those many quiet moments with the ducks at Kirkstall, and in Alexandra Park

And what of those who’ve helped make the good times good in 2011, lighting up my life face-to-face or via illuminating and entertaining discussions in the Twitterverse? The Special Guest Stars? I can reveal that, in no particular order, with Twitter usernames in brackets so you can follow them if you know what’s good for you, here are just some of them. They’re all very special indeed:

Ben Whitehouse (@benjiw)
Rob Butler (@theninthdoctor)
Debbie Gibbs (@plainnorthern)
Jon Hickman (@jonhickman)
Mary Costello (@maryecostello)
Chris Styles (@iamdresden)
Chris Fitzpatrick (@saxonwhittle)
Chris Barstow
Andrew Tate (@cloudatlaskid)
Stella Duffy (@stellduffy)
Nick Jones
Simon Best (@simonpjbest)
David Gilchrist
Jason Prince (@Jason_Prince)
Jenny & Matt Whitham (@Jenny_Whitham & @mattywhitty)

Oh, and my Mum. Obviously. Love to you all and here’s to happier times in 2012.

Chris x

Uncanny resemblances

Whenever I see someone I know on the TV, it always feels a bit odd. But when I see someone on TV who bears a striking resemblance to someone I know, well that’s even stranger. This has been the case for me whilst watching Channel 4’s documentary series My Transsexual Summer. The series itself is to be commended for its sensitive portrayal of trans men and women trying to negotiate their way through a monumental change in their lives, as well as the threats of rejection and hostility that are constantly under the surface of a society that still can’t seem to deal with trans people as well as it should.

One thing that struck me on a personal level, however, was the striking resemblance of one of the trans men featured, Max, to a very dear friend of mine. So I couldn’t resist showing them alongside one another.

Here they are then, Ben and Max. Or is it Max and Ben..?

Chris x

Blind fortune

This post is a sort of response to one on my mate Ben Whitehouse’s blog, about having seen a speech in public by Liz Jackson, who Channel 4 viewers will have seen last night in the latest edition of The Secret Millionaire.  Now, this is a programme about which I’ve always had very mixed feelings.  For those who’ve  never seen the programme, the format entails a wealthy businessperson going “undercover” in a deprived community and not even hinting at their wealth.  They visit various charities and local projects and then, at the end of their stay, they come clean to the people they’ve met and write some of them a big fat cheque to help them out.

On the one hand, these acts of largesse are to be applauded, and it means not only money but also national exposure for organisations badly in need of both.  Plus of course the millionaire goes on a journey of personal discovery, de rigeur for any life swap programme.  However, on the other hand, for me the programme also reinforces uncomfortable – not to mention patronising – notions of the “deserving” poor (as opposed to the “undeserving” poor), as well as introducing almost a game show element, as the millionaire decides who is deserving of a small fraction of their fortune, and how much.  Really, if you were to be brutal, you could say this was essentially Dragon’s Den, given a veneer of philanthropy.  Is The Secret Millionaire a modern version of the lord (or lady) of the manor deigning to visit the serfs and throwing a few gold coins at them in return for their undying gratitude?  If they’re so keen to give something back to the community, then why not regular charity donations rather than a one-off payment?

I’ve tended towards the latter view in the past, although having watched last night’s show my view of it has been mollified somewhat.  Liz, blind or partially sighted for most of her life thanks to a degenerative congenital condition, visited various projects for blind and disabled people in Lewisham – a talking newspaper (still using cassettes), an activity club and a sailing group.  The most interesting part of the documentary involved her initial visit to the activity club for blind people.  Liz came away from it upset: having achieved a great deal in life in a sighted world, she found it something of a culture shock to be surrounded by other blind and visually impaired people, and that there was little they were being encouraged to achieve in life other than to learn salsa dancing.  A talk with the woman running the group and a subsequent visit to their tennis club left her far more positive, the latter raising the possibility that, with funds, this form of tennis could end up being played in schools nationwide, those children maybe even going on to compete in the Paralympics.  Plus working in the evil world of telesales was put to good use as the three organisations benefited not only from funds, but also from some free marketing to help them expand and promote themselves. 

Nevertheless, important issues regarding identity were raised: chiefly that Liz lived her life as a businesswoman first, then a wife and mother; her blindness a fact of life but not her defining characteristic.  Whilst in Lewisham, undercover and away from the trappings of her success, as well as her family, her status as a blind person came to define her more strongly, something clearly brought home by her reaction to her initial visit to the activity club.  Although I still feel rather ambiguous towards the programme and its fundamental concept, this particular episode left me with the feeling that some genuine, lasting good had and will be done.

Chris

Everything’s Gone Greenbelt

No, I hadn’t forgotten about my blog – I suppose that, just lately, I haven’t found that much to blog about.  However, I’ve got plenty to blog about right now as I’ve just come back from this year’s Greenbelt Festival in Cheltenham.  The festival, which has been running since the early 1970s, was held over the August Bank Holiday weekend and attracted around 20,000 visitors.  It’s primarily a Christian arts festival, although there’s more than enough there to engage devout atheists such as myself.

I spent much of my time at this year’s festival watching the literary events at the Hub.  These were coordinated by my good friend (and fellow blogger, tweeter and all things online in generally) Ben Whitehouse.  The star attraction on the literature programme was Jasper Fforde, who during his talk read an extract from his forthcoming new novel (neither a Thursday Next nor a Nursery Crime affair; I won’t say any more than that for now).  He also participated in a book group discussion on Henry David Thoreau’s seminal 19th-century book Walden (man goes back to nature and gets in touch with his spiritual side), a discussion that veered off into issues of non-violence and, somewhat more unexpectedly, the Muppets.  Ben’s fellow Birmingham blogger Jon Bounds gave three talks: one in celebration of the non-shit aspects of his home city; another on a psychogeographic study based on a ride on the Number 11 bus that goes all round the edge of Birmingham; and a third on the internet, memes and goatse (don’t ask, just google it and then wish you hadn’t).

There were also discussions on sacred spaces and utopias, whether it’s okay for Doctor Who and other TV shows to scare children (obviously it is, within reason) – oh, and yours truly gave a little talk on his experiences as a quiz show contestant.  Here’s a shot of me in action (as taken by Mr Bounds):

Countdown talk

As you can see I was in full flow.  Obviously.  After Ben interviewed me about my quiz show experiences, I then fielded some (rather tough) questions from the audience.  Great fun, although I was rather nervous beforehand – going on TV and answering random general knowledge questions, having to talk to an audience is quite another.

I did go beyond the literature at Greenbelt.  There was a good music line-up, the highlights being Royksopp on Saturday night and Duke Special on Sunday night (his appearance on stage caused the only significant rainfall of the festival to magically cease).  Stan’s Cafe brought their Rice Show to the festival, albeit on a smaller scale than last year.  Ikon delivered Pyrotheology, a typically provocative piece of performance whose essential message was to burn down the established Church and set up your own (and to do it yourself – audience members were each given a match as they left afterwards).  On the interactive front, there was self-portrait painting, a mobile confessional, graffiti, dance classes – and speed dating.  The speed dating was this year open to LGBT festival-goers for the first time, although only a handful went to the event.  This I suspect was at least partly due to the fact that it clashed with one of the talks given by this year’s big name attendee: Bishop Gene Robinson.  His talks not surprisingly centred around issues of religion, spirituality and sexuality and he sought to put people’s minds at ease about the apparent conflicts between being gay (or indeed openly sexual) and following scripture.  Mind you, he was unlikely to meet with too much resistance with the generally nice, liberal Greenbelt crowd (the threatened protests of Anglican Mainstream thankfully failed to materialise).  Giving the same talks to less tolerant “Christians”, say in the Southern States of the US, might have been rather a different matter.

So Greenbelt had lots going on.  It also – as it always does – had a theme, and this year it was Standing in the Long Now: pausing in the midst of life’s mad rush to take stock of what is around us, and appreciate its permanence (and, if we aren’t careful, impermanence).  So although I did and saw a great deal over the festival’s four days, I was also careful to make sure I took stock, and stand in my own Long Now, whether in wandering the grounds, sitting and contemplating whilst everyone else attended the Sunday morning service, or drinking tea and chatting with my friend Nick (who attended for the first time this year).  Like I said at the beginning, Greenbelt’s status as a predominantly Christian festival shouldn’t preclude those who are of other religious persuasions, or none at all.  Its thought-provoking discussions and rich selection of arts events make it an important (yet also often overlooked) staple on the festival calendar.  With the summer all but over (some might say it never really started) and the nights noticeably drawing in, it feels like now will be a particularly good time for us all to start standing in our own Long Nows and considering where we fit in and where we, and the world around us, might be headed.

Chris

Pride and prejudice

I’m briefly interrupting my holiday in Reykjavik (fret not, you’ll hear all about that once I’m back) as I’ve received a very unsettling email from my friend Ben Whitehouse.  Ben recently set up a blog, Created in Telford:

http://createdintelford.wordpress.com/

As a result of this, Telford’s first-ever gay pride event is due to be held this weekend.  Sadly, not everybody is so happy about this.  Two extremist groups, Storm Front (white fascists) and Islamic Awakening (no explanation needed), who would normally be at loggerheads (and if only they would firebomb each other into oblivion and leave the rest of us to get on with trying to get on) have both posted on their site forums suggesting that action is required over this event.  It’s got Ben extremely worried, and frankly I’m concerned too.   This and what happened in Israel on Sunday are yet further proof that there’s still a long way to go.

Seeing how open-minded and blasé everyone is in Reykjavik (not just gay venues advertising Pride, but all sorts of random places, anywhere they can display a rainbow flag) is so refreshing.  Of course, rural Iceland is probably a lot less liberal, same as rural or small-town Britain, but as a gay man I don’t feel as though I’d be at risk of a homophobic assault here, not even verbally let alone physically.

I’ll be attending the opening ceremony of Reykjavik Gay Pride tomorrow night and I’ll be doing so with pride, as I get the feeling that, here, Pride is a genuine celebration of not just sexual acceptance but all-round inclusiveness (as opposed to the cynical, commercialised and largely de-politicised junkets in Manchester, Leeds etc).  In the meantime, I hope Telford’s own inaugural celebration isn’t marred by extremist stupidity, the most dangerous stupidity of all.

Chris

Digital Inclusion

Ben was at the Digital Inclusion Conference in London yesterday. It’s a big thing in an age where online communities are becoming more and more central in people’s lives, and the debates go on as to whether these online relationships – via Facebook, Twitter etc – are any real replacement for physical relationships. Here’s a video of him talking to a protester, in a conversation that scratches the surface of the whole issue:

Fascinating stuff, especially to me with my sociology studies. I think this is the sort of thing that the team behind the course I’ve been doing should consider including when they update it (it came out in 2002, so parts of it are looking very dated now).

Chris

Unconvention

My mate Ben’s going to be involved in this at the beginning of June. He’s the Cake Goblin:

http://unconvention.wordpress.com/cakes/

Go attend (because it’ll be interesting) and go eat his cakes (because they’ll be delicious).

Chris